If your partner has any kind of submissive BDSM SEX tendency, and if – like me –
you’re enthusiastic yet clumsy when it comes to wielding a whip and calling
someone a ‘filthy puppy healthy sex’,
at some point you may well have heard the two most terrifying words in the
English language:
“Surprise me.”
Surprises are hard enough when it comes to buying presents,
but when it comes to sex they can range from disappointing to downright
dangerous if you don’t quite get it right. While I’d always advocate ‘having a
horny chat’ long before you don your Batman mask and start beating six shades
of shit out of your partner, occasionally it just doesn’t work like that. Bookpal I’ve had gents tell me that it’s just ‘not
sexy’ if they tell me how to top, or which exact area of their body they want
me to slap and tickle, so they’ve respectfully requested that I make it up as I
go along and they’ll let me know if I do anything that’s not hitting the right
buttons.
But although that eases any worries that I might do
something so awful it turns them off submission forever, it doesn’t ease my
other pressing bookpal reviews concern: that I am a flailing, insecure,
bungling twat. I love the look in a guy’s eyes when I can tease and hurt him in
just the way he loves, and being able to conjure it gives me a deliciously warm
kick in the cunt. But as I build up to it, most of the things that flash
through my mind are either ‘too dominant – he wouldn’t believe it was me doing
them’ or ‘not dominant enough – it sounds like I’ve read this one in Cosmo.’
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